5.11.2009

How Many Is Too Many?

A what point do we become "SLUTS?" Is there a number of men we have to sleep with to become sluts? For instance, is it once we have slept with 9, 18, or 27 men? Is it not necessarily the number but how you conduct you sexual encounters? In my opinion many women including myself have had their share of great, average and failed fucks. I have learned many lessons through the men I have slept with and I don't think I would be who I am today or tomorrow if I were to erase my good or bad sexual experiences. Is it someone who always ends up dissapointed after sleeping with men hoping it may be more time and time again? Or is it someone who is finding themselves through various sexcapades? If either of these are the case, are we all sluts or is it quite possible that we are all saints trying to find our way through sexual experiences?

30 comments:

Anonymous said...

I never had alot of sex partner.. im more of the relationship type,, anyways; i dont think theres a point where u can have too many sex partner.. Its how u see it and carry urself..

ray ray said...

What the fuck is a slut. Let's see...Dubya (he fucked the entire world). Dick Chaney is still fucking (with) the population of the USA. I could go on and on and on and on about politicians.

I love it, but DC is the quintessential home of Politicians, Pimps and Prostitutes.

DC sets the bar and it's set higher as years go by.

My 2nd ex-wife showed me a list of 15 men she'd fucked prior to the age of 21. I was number 16. She also showed me pictures of her naked taken by her High School english teacher. Though she was 20 years my junior, we got married in Vegas 6 months after we met. Tell me ladies and gentlemen, is she a slut?

My list? I have no idea. I'm a Vietnam Era Vet and I was so fucked up at the time I couldn't begin to give you a fuck count nor a name of anyone I popped during those lost years.

I'm an ex touring Jazz and Rock & Roll musician. I don't have to tell you where my head was. Lead singers get a lot of pussy and I traveled from "sea to shining sea".
Plus, he says modestly, I was the total package and ripped to the rim which rhymes with trim, the female sweet spot.

I was a single college professor. My students loved me in more than one fashion. I guess, in that case, you may call me a slut. I do love the word. Slut...slut...slut to infinity and beyond.

I think the word slut (though it is a powerful word) has very little meaning today.

Want a number? I have no fucking idea!

Fini

Anonymous said...

I would rather have a relationship with my sex....but that is me who was raised Catholic maybe explaining alot.
I don't judge others by #'s and never will. A word I believe in is "protection" if you are very active,too many diseases out there and I believe that not many people disclose them before they have sex. I know that children as young as 12 are active and I find that to be a little too soon,emotionally they are not ready.

Bertha said...

MAYBE SHE ISN'T RAY RAY BUT YOU ARE. LOL.

12 YEAR OLDS HAVING SEX IS SOOOOOOOOOO RIDICULOUS. I GUESS IF YOU ARE USING PROTECTION WHY NOT EXPLORE THE WORLD THROUGH MEN.

IF THERE IS NO POINT WHERE YOU CAN BECOME A SLUT WHY ARE WOMEN STILL BEING CALLED THIS?

Unknown said...

Slut is an outdated word. There still are women who are indiscriminately promiscuous who do not have good hygiene. I would submit they might be sluts, but I still think the word is designed to keep women down.

Anonymous said...

I've heard older men say a woman is a slut when she reaches the number 10. That blows my mind!
I will personally take my number to the grave, but I do believe what defines a slut is how the woman carries herself. If she is bragging about it, telling the whole world, and letting any guy know he could just take her, then she prob is one.
Myself, I have a life way too complicated for a relationship right now, so I don't see anything wrong with calling up a guy for a little booty call.

Bertha said...

LOL. BAD HYGIENE.........UGH!

WELL LETTING ANY GUY KNOW HE COULD TAKE HER IS KIND OF A DEAD GIVEAWAY.............

Brenda said...

Being a slut is in the eye of the beholder...depends on your values and morals...for me...I believe your a slut if you sleep with anything comes along...that you don't respect yourself enough to say no...when you really don't want too...

Bertha said...

yea i think many of us have slept with a guy who we really didnt want to but did it just because and wound up regretting it............

Moneyline said...

Sluts fuck married men. Sluts come to Vegas, fuck miscellaneous men then return home to her SO. Sluts fuck hundreds of women without a condom.

Yes, a slut can be a man or woman.

Kia~Boo said...

i think the word SLUT is used by teenagers and people in their early 20's...once you reach the age of 30 you come to realize that your body belongs to you and you can do whatever you want with it...it's yours(always has been and always will be) but in my opinion a slut is a woman who sleeps with any and everybody, their is no boundaries....she doesn't care if it's the milk man, the cab driver, the boyfriend of her best friend, she'll do him....so in my dictionary the term means: a loose promiscuous woman....

Bertha said...

LOL MARRIED MEN. LET IT GO MONEY LINE! SO IF A MAN FUCKS HUNDREDS OF WOMEN WITH A CONDOM HE IS NOT A SLUT? BUT IF A WOMAN DOES THE SAME WITH A CONDOM SHE IS? YEA DOUBLE STANDARD.

Nicole said...

I feel that there is no certain number that labels you as a woman. I have only slept with 5 men in my life and that is just my preference. But why is it that we are labeled differently from a man. A man sleeps with many women and is considered a stud a woman does it and is considered a slut. If a person likes sex then they like sex, as long as you are being cautious and not sleeping with anyone elses man then why does it really matter?

Anonymous said...

I grew up in a highly christian environment where simply sex before marriage would equate to being a slut.

I havn't really found any new definitions.

Its nice though that there are other women out there that aren't so harsh with the word and think shit of people who do like to sleep with whatever number of people.

Moneyline said...

I was just giving you a 'worst-case scenerio' Bertha. Strap or no strap, its still foul if you fuck indiscriminantly.

Bertha said...

WHY IS THE WOMAN WHO SLEEPS WITH SOMEONE ELSES MAN DEEMED A SLUT? IT'S YOUR MAN THAT TAKES VOWS WITH YOU. THE OTHER WOMAN IS NOT OBLIGATED TO YOU OR YOUR COMMITMENT! SHE IS ONLY GETTING OFF?

SEX UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED? OK THE 10 REMAINING PEOPLE IN AMERICA STAND UP!LOL.

The InFAMOUS Born GuILtY said...

I think a slut is a chick that just ffucks a huge number of dudes at random. She fucks more than 5 guys a week. She usually fucks a whole clique of dudes , not at the same time but spreads the love. Then sluts get gang banged at not give a fuck. I'm no expert. That's just my opinion. I still respct the slut as lonbg as she acknowledges that she is one though.

John said...

Sex is always a cool subject to shoot the shit over, but my opinion is the more the merrier lol , well at least until I get old enough not to he he . I personslly don't know the TRUE definition of the word but I don't think that half the people who use that word know it either. Sooooo I'm gonna say this..... I think that its the moment that you turn a man DOWN for sex is the moment you become a slut because he has to go back home to Rosi palm and her 4 sisters. Because he can't handle rejection you become a slut. I say were all saints tying to find our way. But..... like I said I DON'T know the true meaning of slut, so I'll stop here. I would like to say this though we should all just fuck and not worry about who or what a slut is he he.

Bertha said...

I MEAN JUST FUCKING AT RANDOM IS A BIT RIDICULOUS.

HOWEVER I AGREE WITH JOHN, IF WE WANT TO FUCK SOMEONE WHY NOT?

Anonymous said...

This blog is ironic, because just YESTERDAY I had to pop my 11-year old son in the mouth for using the word “SLUT.” (I just tapped him lightly, so don’t be calling Family Services on me.)

Anyway, he and his 15-year old brother were on the basketball court playing ball. Some young girls came on the court and started playing too. Well, he came inside not too long after and I asked him, “Why aren’t you out there playing ball?” He said, “Because I don’t want to be out there with those sluts.” At first, I gave him a look because I thought I’d misheard. So, I asked him, “What did you say?” and he repeated it. “I don’t want to be out there playing with those sluts.” So, he got tapped in the mouth and I asked him to explain what that word meant. He couldn’t. I told him that it was a rude term to use when referring to girls or women and especially not something an 11-year old should be saying. I sent him in his room to think about it.

In summary, I guess being a slut has nothing to do with how many men you sleep with. It’s how someone else perceives you. Those teen girls were talking and conducting themselves in a manner that my 11-year old perceived as being “slutty.” In my opinion, you can be a slut and no one will be the wiser if you are discreet about your encounters and don't put yourself "out there". After all, your business can’t get in the streets unless you put it out there.

Bertha said...

I THINK THE WORD IS THROWN AROUND AND NOW ADAYS AND I DONT THINK IN THIS DAY AND TIME THERE ARE NO SLUTS. I THINK WOMEN HAVE MORE FREEDOM TO EXPLORE THEIR SEXUALITY MORE IN THIS DAY AND TIME. OF COURSE THERE ARE CERTAIN RESTRICTIONS.............

John said...

LMFAO ... ha ha Well Yes Bertha, you said it better than me lol that was exactly how I meant it... Dam what a Fucked up thought lol think about it ... Sounds like a blog you could right about RANDOM FUCKING lol could you imagine people man or women just out there random fucking just to be doing it LMAO. Now thats a wicked thought.

Blaze said...

Hmmmm, well, my personal definition of Slut, and it isn't reserved for just women is a person that has random sex, with random people with no thought of consequence or care. I don't think the number matters so much, but the circumstances might. When sex becomes primarily alley ways, fast food restaurant bathrooms, other people's bathrooms, several times a day/week with just as many different individuals with no name exchange, no numbers or any information whatsoever, then we are in slutville. Hell, just ask Maury...paying for repeat trips to his show to be told, man number 26 is NOT the father....LOL
B.

Bertha said...

OK I DID SEE THAT EPISODE. I UNDERSTAND 2 GUYS BUT 10 THATS KIND OF RIDICULOUS.

RANDOM FUCKING. PEOPLE ARE BOLD.

SlaveC said...

sluts are not so much a bad thing...if used in the right context... now seems like what you are talking about is being a whore... slut and whore are two different things...if you are in a relationship... being a "slut" could promise to be quite fun...

Bertha said...

YEA I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN ;-)

~Melissa~♪ said...

I guess I'm a slut..Oh well practice makes perfect...onward & upward dah'ling... after all I am a bit of a perfectionist.;~}

ray ray said...

I believe one person can only fuck 1373 persons per fiscal annum to be considered a non-slut. A slut be gone if you will.

Bertha said...

lol.

leonsays said...

damn i'm late again. Bertha you gotta call me baby, lemme know when you post some new shit!

A "slut" attaches an emotional value to fucking. A "whore" has a monitary value on sex...so back to the slut

She is a woman that can fuck one person or she can fuck one person a day. If you allow yourself to be taken advantage of...YOU'RE A SLUT!

I love it when after I do-the-do with some new-new and she gets the f*ck up and leaves me wondering..."where the fuck is she going"

How many men can relate?

a slut will fuck you because she wants or feels like that will get you to connect with her on an emotional level...the slut is the girl who fucks and wants to meet mom in the morning.

BTW men can be sluts and whores too...

any questions?