I was reading a blog on Myspace when I came across this interesting quote:
“If a man is not your boyfriend or husband before he sleeps with you he looses respect for you.”
Do you consider yourself in a serious relationship (i.e. someone's boy or girlfriend) before sex?
22 comments:
for some men yes they totally loose respect .. basically they got what they came for...
Sex does not define the relationship for once the "lust" has died down then what would you have... there must be more to the relationship for it to be a relationship.
Whoo great picture, anyway I agree but I wonder if it can work the other way.
MEN ARE FUNNY. I MEAN REALLY, IS THERE A TIME FRAME?
no i don't but some people really do
hell naw!
and i DO NOT believe that quote at all.....COMPLETE BULLSHIT!
It depends on the intensity
of the attraction.
The common denominator with the friendship, does mean a lot.
They only lose respect for YOU because they have no respect for themselves.
And personally for after sex is when it becomes more serious...sex is not intimacy unless your intimate and to me it solidifies the bond or intimate connection through a shard experience.
I MEAN MAYBE IN 1950 YOU COULD PULL THIS OFF BUT A RELATIONSHIP IN MY OPINION IS NOT "SEALED" UNTIL WE CAN GAGE EACH OTHER'S CHEMISTRY IN THE BEDROOM...........
Well what about long distance relationships, can you fall deeply in love with someone and never have slept with them. I met a young lady the other day and she met her husband, they married but had never visited each other until two weeks before the wedding, they now have three kids after 10yrs and still love each other.
THIS IS ONE IN A MILLION............
Sex is Sex if i give it to u its because i want to, its not for his pleasure but for me. So he can take like he want to take it!!!I'm not lookin for a boyfriend i'm lookin for great Sex!!!!
Don't get me wrong I mean sure there's good ol' slap & Tickle but it is when the tickle is really good that we work on the solidifying thingy.So your statement "NOT "SEALED" UNTIL WE CAN GAGE EACH OTHERS CHEMISTRY IN THE BEDROOM". I agree with totally. That's why I say AFTER sex GOOD SEX I get more serious and intimate.
I usually am in a relationship before I have the sex,I know ways to have an orgasm by myself like any other woman does so why take chances I don't have to with STD's and possibly ruin a relationship before it is one.
Well if you need a catagory to put him or her in, I would say to each his own, because we all are looking for somthing differant or in differant levels. I personally call it the get to know you first stage. Sometimes one wants to know if they hit it off sexually before they go any further. And as far as loosing respect.... Well I'll just say I have not yet lost respect for ANY of my sexual partners. Maybe its not the loss of respect that occurs here rather than a lack of chemistry which could mean no real mental connection.
I beg to differ.....I kick the tires before I drive a car off the lot.
I know what you mean moneyline. I think its weird to take someone serious then the sex turns out to be horrible. that goes on too much to be trying to be in a relationship pre-sex
not really but it all changes after sex
I think sex is part of the package, but I really don't think it should be used to judge whether or not the person is respectable.
How do you lose respect for any woman/man that you chose to lay down with anyways??? Even if the sex was weak, there had to be something you were attracted to before the encounter.
Thank you Moneyline. How could you pursue someone then lose respect thats crazy. I understand if it was the first night maybe buts whose to say even if so?
No, I don't think you are in a serious relationship until you have had sex. Even once you had sex, the relationship does not have to be serious until both partners make it.
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